My fan tried something like this for the first time. He wanted me to dominate and guide him. He wanted to be submissive, blindfolded and gently humiliated, but above all he wanted to be aroused for as long as possible, with an erection and an orgasm as late as possible. When I decide.
I made him cum without hands and all the session I used riding whip with palm. He was moaning, yes, but the orgasm was of course ruined or without hands.