Start by stretching the glans a few times. Feel free to spread the opening wide. Massage and squeeze the glans and shaft. Be gentle but firm. Massage out a lot of pre-ejaculate. When the cock is ready to be penetrated, don t forget the lubricant. Insert the dilator carefully and play with the cock and its opening. Vibration can be extra hot. Here we finish with a sensitive handjob where the sperm leaves his glans with very nice pumping strokes.